Have you seen picture of Angelina Jollie and Brad Pit together? Oh! It's perfection. What a power couple. I know that aside from feeling envy on those love birds, at the back of your mind you ask yourself How can I achieve that kind of perfect relationship? In which both of you will be comfortable with each other and happy of what you have. But honestly speaking, a perfect relationship will not just happen overnight. It will take time to develop or establish that kind of relationship or treatment with your partner.
1. You Are Supportive To Each Other.
It means, his/her success, is also your success. Your partner is the first one to greet you on your birthday and the first person to congratulate you and celebrate with you when you achieve something like getting a promotion or even losing few pounds of yours. A perfect relationship is where both of you supports whatever your partner love and wants to achieve in life.
2. You Are Looking At The Same Direction.
You can't be with someone whose target in life is the opposite of what you want to do in your life because it will will always lead to bickering, quarrel and argument. I'm not saying that both of you guys must be in a same profession or hobbies. What am saying is your long term goals must be the same or at the least both of your goals can compliment each other and both of you want to achieve those goals while having each other.
3. You Have Each Other Not Just For Good Times But Also For Bad Times.
Even during your losing moments, your partner will still be very proud of you. He/she will cheer you up and tell you you’re still the best even though you failed to achieve an award you were aiming for or got defeated on a competition. Even if you feel like a pathetic loser, your partner will encourage you and will take away all the despair and sadness you fell to make you feel like a winner.
4. Split The Bill.
I know guys don't like it because it is their pride to provide to their partner. But as time pass by, both of you are becoming comfortable with each other, that's why it is okay if there will be times that the girl should pay for the bill. Or if your partner still wont let that, let yourself contribute something for your relationship like buying a movie ticket for both of you or giving him simple gifts even without occasions. Remember, it's not always the money that will streghten the relationship but the effort and thoughtfulness you exert for your partner.
5. Both Of You Never Gets Tired Of Telling How Much You Love Each Other.
Both of you doesn’t just tell it every day, but every hour if possible. Even in phone calls, text messages, the moment you wake up, while hugging each other or even after you kissed each other. Saying "I love you" becomes a magic word that can melt your heart away once you hear your significant other says it.
6. You Love Each Other Just The Way You Are.
You love each other to the point that both of you don't mind how you look when you are together. Even if your girlfriend doesn't wear make up or your boyfriend doesn't have a hunk body. You love each other's imperfections and still find it beautiful. You make your partner feel beautiful and he/she do the same too. He tells you how cute you are and how he thoughts that your new dress suits you perfectly. You may not be the hottest chick in the campus or the one with the prettiest face, but then in his eyes, no one can exceed your loveliness.
7. You Seem To Have A Personal Doctor.
Your partner knows your health conditions and restrictions. He/she has also memorized the medicine or whatever you need to take when you feel sick. And when you do, he/she takes care of you. But even if he/she is not beside you, you will still feel his care and he will always wish that you get well soon.
8. Becoming Busy At Work Doesn't Become A Root Of LQ.
Your partner understands well the nature of your work, he/she cheers you up when you feel so damn tired and when it is possible, he gives you a helping hand to make your tasks easier.
Your love one gives you so much of this. Whenever thoughts of giving up on your dream bothers you, just thinking of him will make you want to aspire and strive further.
10. You Fight But You Reconcile.
You have fights and conflicts every now and then but it has never become unhealthy or toxic for you. You learn to forgive and accept everything about him. And the best thing is that, it makes your relationship grow much stronger.
11. You Shares Each Other's Dreams.
He tells you that he wants to establish a business or wants to buy his own dream car someday. And on the other side, you are also not afraid to share your dreams to him whether it is enrolling for a Masters degree someday or travelling to Paris with him. Both of you lets each other know your dreams and plans for the future. Somehow, this makes you feel that both of you are part of each other's future.
12. He Believes In Forever With You.
He wants you to be the girl he will marry when he reaches the age of 24 or 25. He will do everything just to keep you in his life. Or as a woman, you see yourself in the future as his husband and having kids together.
13. You Become A Better Person Through Him.
No matter what kind of person you were, you feel like he has brought out all the best in you. He does not change the way you are. You are still the same person as you were when he met you, you have only become more amazing and a whole lot tougher.
14. He Effortlessly Makes You Love Him More Every Day.
You are happy and contented with whatever you have as a pair. You know that your relationship has its own flaws and can never be perfect, but who cares anyway? You love each other so much and it is the most important thing for both of you.
I know you can add even more on this list because your partner is just too awesome for you. (Just as I do, though I only chose the ones that I think are the best.)